After talking to a woman and getting to know her on the phone, it’s time to set up your first date. But what actions should you take on the first date which can ensure future dates.
By now, you’re probably wondering what you should say and where to take her. Perhaps, you might even entertain the thought of how to get her back to your place for a more intimate encounter.
In the next few paragraphs I’ll show you a few tips that’ll help you have an awesome first date.
Tip #1- Remove all expectations and worries
Probably the biggest problem which guys face on their first date is getting too worked up about being perfect. While it’s important to make a good impression, you shouldn’t put too much emphasis on say or doing the right thing.
An easy way to do this is to remove all expectations about any outcome. If it goes badly, then the only thing you’ve wasted is a little time and money. But if you have a great time, then you might find a great woman to take on future dates.
Tip #2- Limit your time
One big mistake that many guys make is to plan out this extravagant event for the first date. When you first meet a woman, you’re using the time to qualify her as someone who might want to date in the future. The best way to do this is to meet her for coffee or a drink. That way, you haven’t wasted too much of your resources on a woman who’s not worth dating.
Tip #3- Be in control and plan out the date
Women are attracted to guys who are in control of their lives and make decisions. If you take the initiative and plan out your event, then you’ll come across as more attractive. In addition, by telling her where you’re going, you will be able to go to a place of your choosing and limit your time like I described in tip #2.
Tip #4- Have fun and flirt
The secret to having a great date is to build rapport and attraction. When you’re out with her, this should be your first concern. If there is not attraction between the two of you, the date will go nowhere. So it’s important to have a little fun and flirt with her.
This basically means that you look for every opportunity to tease her and bring sexual innuendo into the conversation. One of the best pieces of advice I’ve heard is from David DeAngelo of ‘Double Your Dating’. He simply states you should treat all women your dating as a bratty little sister. If you can trip her up and tease her this way, you’ll come across as more attractive.
Tip #5- Know when to break the rules
The previous four rules aren’t set in stone. For instance, if the date is going well and you think you might end up sleeping with her that night, then you should forget about limiting your time. Just use these tips as you see fit and break them when they conflict with something that’s working for you.
If you pay attention to these five tips, you’ll end up having a lot more fun and excitement on your first dates. As a result, you’ll discover it’ll be a lot easier to build attraction and rapport with every women you date.